The Habit of Prayer

We have already looked at how the Lord’s Prayer encourages us to ask God for our daily bread. This framework for prayer starts with the words ‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be Your name’ (Matt 6:9) and reminds us that daily prayer is the best way to start any day!

Prayer starts with a recognition of God’s presence in the world and in our lives. The Lord’s Prayer urges us to begin prayer by recognising who God is and who we are in relation to Him. He is our Father in heaven. We are His children. This reminds us of our need for dependence and of God’s glory. We move on to ask for God’s name to be hallowed (to be made holy.) God is already holy, but in this prayer, we recognise this fact and pause in our busyness to consider holiness and an alternative way of living.

Whether we pray the Lord’s Prayer every day or not, there needs to be time set aside for prayer every day. As the saying goes, ‘seven days without prayer makes one weak.’ Let daily prayer become as much a part of your everyday routine as brushing your teeth and eating!

Daily Acts of Kindness

Daily acts of kindness help us to keep our focus on God and away from the selfish tendency to hoard and think only about our own needs. Yesterday, we talked about a ‘giveaway Advent calendar’ to help our local Salvation Army food bank and to encourage generosity, but generosity is not always shown in material ways. We can help others through daily acts of kindness: speaking positively, paying compliments, thanking others, showing love in acts of service (doing shopping for someone, maybe, or helping with a repair.) In these acts of kindness, we show that we value people, appreciate them, and are thinking about them.

We might thank a shop attendant instead of haranguing them; we might stop to help someone in the street; we might offer to make a drink at home instead of expecting to be waited on hand and foot! These daily acts of kindness never seem particularly noteworthy, but are, in fact, visible demonstrations of love and appreciation. They really do make a difference!

The Gift Of Giving

Today is St Nicholas’ Day. St Nicholas is the patron saint of sailors, merchants, pawnbrokers, repenting thieves and children. He is also the patron saint of Russia and Greece, and such cities as Liverpool, Aberdeen and Galway, and is also popularly known as Santa Claus.

St Nicholas was born in Greece in 270 A.D. and was orphaned at an early age, being left with considerable wealth. He became known for his kindness, helping the poor, sick and suffering with aid and gifts. He devoted himself to a life serving God and became the bishop of Myra. He reminds us that the Christian life should involve serving others and helping those in need.

One ‘alternative’ Advent calendar is to put aside an item to help others each day during Advent. It might be a tin of beans or a packet of rice. By doing this each day of Advent, you end up with either 21 or 24 items (depending whether you start on 1 December or 3 December!) to give to a food bank, for example, to help people in need. Maybe on St Nicholas’ Day we can focus on giving, rather than receiving!

Interruptions

The Christmas story is all about God interrupting people. He sent angels to interrupt and disrupt ordinary lives: first of all, Zechariah in the temple (taking so long to perform his duties as a result that people wondered what was going on!), then Mary (given the life-changing news that the Holy Spirit would come upon her and she would become pregnant), then Joseph (assuring him that this crazy story was actually true), then the shepherds (disrupted from their job of looking after sheep by the angels’ appearance.) Interruptions were the way God chose to bring good news to the world.

Many of us can’t stand the thought of interruptions. Our lives are so finely tuned that even a minute’s delay can cause the carefully constructed tower of activities to come tumbling down! But interruptions are an inevitable part of life, and if this is the way God chooses to speak to us and direct us, we need to be prepared to be interrupted.

The unexpected phone call, the knock on the door from a friend you haven’t seen in ages, the chance meeting in the street which delays your shopping… these might be all ways that God interrupts you today. Don’t let interruptions get you down. They might be divine ways of communicating with you!

 

I Don’t Like Mondays!

How do we react on a Monday morning, compared to a Sunday?! Many of us work Mondays to Fridays, and there is often the sense of ‘I don’t like Mondays’ after a weekend of pleasurable activities. Mondays represent the everyday life; there is a popular meme which says a retired person is the only one who likes Mondays!
As we prepare for Christmas, it’s easy to become overwhelmed by our jobs’ list and to feel that we are incapable of juggling the everyday demands of life with the additional activities of this period. Parents see the list of non-uniform days, Christmas parties, Christmas movies, Christmas fairs and feel that all they do in this month is hand over money to good causes and ferry their children to different events! Unsurprisingly, this leads to stress and frustration.
But God is there with us, in the everyday and the mundane, in the additional activities and in the frenzy of modern life. The Christmas message is that God is now with us on a full-time basis! Advent gives us the opportunity to pause, however briefly, and give thanks to God. Whether that is in the form of opening an Advent calendar, reading a Scripture from the Christmas story or going to a Christmas event doesn’t really matter. What matters is that we do pause and give thanks.

Once A King In Narnia…

There are many other Christian allusions in the story of “The Lion, The Witch And The Wardrobe” by C. S. Lewis. The children – who have been crowned Kings and Queens in Narnia after the battle which sees the White Witch defeated – return home to England. They wonder if it has all been a dream, but the Professor – who himself has been to Narnia as we discover in another book ‘The Magician’s Nephew’ – says, ‘Once a king in Narnia, always a king in Narnia’. He encourages the children to hold on to what they have learned in Narnia. This reminds us that we have an identity in God which the world can’t take away. God said to His people through Moses, ‘you will be for me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation.’ (Ex 19:6) Paul told Timothy, ‘if we endure, we will also reign with Him.’ (2 Tim 2:12) We may feel insignificant and unimportant in this world – especially if we are young – but actually, we are all kings and queens in God’s eyes. God says we are ‘a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.’ (1 Pet 2:9) Perhaps, like Peter, Susan, Edmun and Lucy, we need to see ourselves as God sees us.