Best Clothes

Our household object for today is our ‘best clothes’ and the Bible passage is a parable about a wedding banquet (Matthew 22:2-14).

Most people wear their best clothes to a wedding, perhaps even buying a new outfit for the occasion. Dressing up is something many people enjoy. Our toddlers at the Parent & Toddler group at church enjoy the roleplay costumes we have bought, where they can pretend to be a princess or superhero. There’s something special about looking your best! The sparkling costumes on Strictly Come Dancing or the ballet costumes we see when we go to the theatre are other examples of clothes which thrill us and impress us.

We cannot enter the kingdom of heaven, however, just because we wear nice clothes. The Bible talks about God clothing us with ‘garments of salvation… and a robe of His righteousness.’ (Isaiah 61:10) We need the righteousness of Christ in order to stand before God. Paul tells us ‘God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.’ (2 Corinthians 5:21) Easter reminds us that we must clothe ourselves in humility and gratitude and receive Christ’s righteousness instead of relying on our own.

 

Freedom

Our household object today is a hat, and our Bible passage is 1 Corinthians 11:14-16. Nowadays, hats are both practical (keeping us warm in winter and cool in summer) and fashionable (worn at weddings and other special occasions, especially for women), but they have frequently been seen to be a measure of respect and honour. In the past, women used to wear hats to attend church services; convention tells us that a man wears a hat outdoors only and a woman wears a hat whenever she wants!
The idea of hats being linked to freedom may seem strange to us today, but in the past, this topic has aroused much controversy. An emphasis on the outward trappings (what we wear) seems pointless to us today, but the concept of having to become a Jew before you could become a Christian is something Paul had to fight against; an outward sign of conformity (circumcision) is no longer needed because of Christ’s sacrifice for us on the cross. Standing firm for freedom without offending others is something we still wrestle with today, and will look different for different people and cultures. We have to remember that Christ died to bring us into a relationship with God; relationship and not simply rules are what matter now. (Rules can be really helpful, but relationship gets to the heart of the matter!)

Re-appraising what’s valuable

Today’s household object from ‘At Home In Lent’ is something not every household may have: a safe. Our Bible passage is Matthew 6:19-23.

 

A safe is used to keep valuable things safe! Money, jewellery and important documents are items we often keep in a safe, which is protected by a lock and often needs an access code to open. The idea of a safe is that even if a burglar or fire were to devastate the sanctuary of our homes, our precious belongings would be protected.

Jesus reminds us in these verses, however, that we need to travel light through life and understand the importance of eternal treasures. As Chris Tomlin reminds us in his song, ‘Father of Lights’,

‘All the best things in this world
Money just can’t buy;
They come down from the Father, down from the Father.
Down from the Father of lights.’

Lent is a time for re-appraising our values and looking afresh at what is valuable in this life and the next.

 

The Kitchen Sink

I’m really enjoying my Lent study book, ‘At Home In Lent’ by Gordon Giles. The book looks at 46 household objects and connects them to our journey of faith. We are studying these passages and objects at our Lent lunches at church, starting on Friday, and each day during Lent on our church Facebook page and website, I’m sharing thoughts on these.
I believe firmly that faith is rooted in the ordinary and the everyday, that God is real in both our mountain-top experiences and in the valleys low! So today I offer my own household object: the kitchen sink.
I came down this morning having clearly not tidied up properly last night to find my sink looking like the first picture. Food remnants were clogging up the plughole. It looked disgusting.
I had to clear it all out and wash it (which obviously I should have done last night) before it was restored to its usual state.
As I did this, it reminded me of how sin so easily clogs our life and blocks the flow of God’s Holy Spirit in us. The sin may not seem very big (shreds of carrot and tiny onion pieces were not huge, after all), but it can easily build up to block our lines to God.
In order to have those communication lines restored – for if sin and unforgiveness remain, we are cut off from God – we must be cleansed. We have to confess our sin and turn away from it and allow God to cleanse and restore us.
So my morning cleaning job turned into a parable of its own!

Keys

Today’s household object are keys and the Bible passage is Matthew 16:13-19.
Keys are essential to unlocking doors, but the concept of keys applies not only to a physical lock but to other areas (a piano or computer keyboard have keys, diagrams and maps have keys and ciphers to explain what we see and of course music is said to have a key signature to help us know what the music will sound like.) A key unlocks something, giving us access to something or to some place.
Jesus came to give us access to God. (John 14:6) He entrusted the keys of the kingdom of heaven to us. Now we can approach God with confidence and boldness, knowing we will find help and mercy from Him. (Hebrews 4:15-16)
I have a habit of losing keys. No matter how many designated safe places I have to put them or how many lanyards I buy to keep them safe around my neck, I still lose keys on a daily basis. Sometimes J feel equally lost spiritually, ‘locked out’ of God’s presence because of wrong attitudes or temper or other sin. The key back to God’s presence and peace is always repentance and reliance on God’s love, mercy, grace and forgiveness. (1 John 1:9)

Prayer Is God’s Power House

Joy Gascoigne from Grimethorpe Pentecostal Church spoke tonight on the subject of prayer. Prayer is a mark of God’s people, His plan that His kingdom operates through prayer. When we pray, we should expect God to answer.

Luke 5:16 shows us Jesus as a praying man, who often withdrew to solitary places to pray. He prayed with HIs disciples as well as on His own; He prayed in all situations at all times. He was a busy man, but He made time for prayer. People who want to pray must find a time and a place to pray. Like Jesus, we must pray for other believers (see John 17), but we must also learn to pray as He did: sincerely (being genuine and honest, not putting on an act – see Matt 6:6), praying with faith (see Matt 21:22) and with forgiveness (Matt 11:25).

Praying with faith means accepting that God’s answers can be ‘yes’, ‘no’ or ‘not yet.‘ It can be difficult to wait for God to answer at times, but we are not at the end of the story yet. Praying with faith means we trust God even when we cannot see His answers yet. Forgiveness is essential to seeing prayer answered. A lack of forgiveness creates a road block in our relationship with God and stops progress. It limits our access to God. Forgiveness is not a feeling, but a choice, a decision of the will which will always open the door to God’s blessing.

Prayer is essential. We need to pray.