Self-control
Garry continued his series on 2 Pet 1:3-9 this morning, looking at adding self-control to our goodness and knowledge.
Self-control (translated as ‘temperance’ in the KJV) is having power or force or strength over one’s self. Temperance reminded Garry of ferrous metals which need ‘tempering’ (a process by which the hardness or elasticity of metals (such as steel) is improved by heating and re-cooling it.) If a metal is heated and then cooled suddenly, it becomes very hard but is also very brittle; if a metal is heated and cooled gradually, it becomes softer and more pliable. The ideal is somewhere in between!
Christians are often characterised as soft and pliable, this being seen in negative terms (‘soppy’, ‘wimps’ etc.) We need to have backbone, a strength of character that allows us to bend without snapping, even if others are urging us to go one way and we know that we need to go God’s way. Sin no longer has mastery over us (see Rom 6:5-6), because our old self has been crucified with Christ. God has liberated us from the desires that ruled over us (see Eph 2:1-2). We have been transferred from the kingdom of darkness to the kingdom of light, but the Spirit does not make us slaves (see Rom 8:15). God has purchased us with the blood of Christ and is our rightful owner now, but it is as if He has given the remote control back to us. We are now free to choose to obey and to surrender to Him (or to give in to the old way of living and to the temptations of the devil.)
Paul talks about self-control using the imagery of athletics in 1 Corinthians 9:24-27. Self-disciplines is required in any aspect of life if we are to succeed. We don’t hate our bodies (see Eph 5:29), but at times we have to push through the pain barrier and do that which is the right thing to do, regardless of our feelings. Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit and is something that, although instantly accessible to us through God’s Spirit, tends to grow within us as we learn to say ‘no’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age (Titus 2:13).
Paul urges Timothy to spurn all that is evil and to ‘run away from infantile indulgence. Run after mature righteousness—faith, love, peace—joining those who are in honest and serious prayer before God.’ (see 2 Tim 2:19, 22-23, The Message.) We have been given the power to choose whether we serve God or serve our own appetites, whether we ‘become the kind of container God can use to present any and every kind of gift to his guests for their blessing.’ (2 Tim 21, The Message)
Prayer walks (2)
Some of you may wonder what exactly we do on a prayer walk. The clue (as Dave so often says!) is in the name: we walk and we pray. But prayer can, of course, take many forms. Mark has written a prayer for us to read out at the end of each street. That asks God to bless the people who live there and their homes and to release His Holy Spirit to work in these streets and to bring people to a knowledge of Christ as Saviour as well as to guard and protect us and local people.
We often pray silently, asking God to move and to show us exactly how He wants us to pray. Sometimes we may pray outloud, just talking to God about what we see and what we long to see. I often sing as I pray, but then that’s just me!
Jesus sent His disciples out in pairs, so we often walk with other people:
Malachi 3:16 says “Then those who feared the Lord talked with each other, and the Lord listened and heard.” Sometimes our prayers consist partly of our talking with each other as we walk and lifting up the things we share to God.
To help with this blog, we also take photographs during the prayer walks. We are planning to put up many of these photos in church as a visual stimulus and aid to prayer for the streets of Goldthorpe long after the prayer walks are completed. God is able to use many different forms of prayer and we believe that people respond to different things when praying, so we want to use everything we can to inspire and encourage people to seek God.
Yesterday we finished the walk on High Street. The intersection of High Street and Barnburgh Lane houses the Dearne Enterprise Centre and the local Job Centre is situated on High Street:
We prayed for economic regeneration and for local people to benfit from training and find jobs, for the unemployment rate in Goldthorpe is much higher than the national average and can be a major cause of poverty and deprivation.
Because JJ’s Chippy were celebrating, some of us also joined in their celebrations!
(You can tell we weren’t fasting yesterday!)
All you need to do these prayer walks is a heart for God, a longing to see Him work in our village and an hour to spare from 12 noon until 1 p.m. (or thereabouts) on Saturdays. Come along and join us next week!
Communication
Last week on the prayer walk, we prayed over the water tower and asked God’s Spirit to flow into people’s lives in the same way that the water flows from this water tower into people’s houses.
Today we prayed for the BT communications hub in Goldthorpe:
We pray that Jesus, the Word of God, will speak to us and will reveal Himself to the people in Goldthorpe. We come alive when He speaks life to us! Mobile phones are practically ubiquitous now in our country. We have a God who is not simply ubiquitous (appearing to be in more than one place at the same time) but who is omnipresent (present everywhere at the same time!)
God, resurrect these bones
Today was the second prayer walk and once again, we walked various streets in Goldthorpe, praying that God would bring life by His Spirit to this place.
So many parts of Goldthorpe are ruined and desolate. The church that used to meet on Frederick Street has closed:
The Barnsley British Cooperative Society used to have a building here, but this is now just a house and the commemorative plaque is damaged:
But the picture is not all doom and gloom. We saw more new houses being built today:
The old secondary school was demolished and a new building (Dearne ALC) is now open:
The Dearne Enterprise Centre on Barnburgh Lane works hard to offer adult education classes, training and benefits advice as well as giving opportunities for volunteering (this is where I first learnt to use a computer twenty-five years ago!)
And JJ’s Chippy on Frederick Street was celebrating 15 years of trading today, offering various raffle prizes to loyal customers:
We live in the physical world, but we also inhabit the spiritual world since we have been seated with Christ in the heavenly realms (Eph 2:6). There are times when all we see with our natural eyes is desolation and death, barrenness and brokenness. Last week we were encouraged by Isaiah 58:12 (“Your people will rebuild the ancient ruins and will raise up the age-old foundations; you will be called Repairer of Broken Walls, Restorer of Streets with Dwellings.”) This week, I have been greatly encouraged by Ezekiel 37, inspired by the song ‘Awake My Soul’ on the new Chris Tomlin album, ‘Burning Lights’. This song looks at how we need God’s Spirit to breathe on us and God’s word to speak to us if we are to have life. In Ezekiel 37, Ezekield sees the miraculous as the valley of dry bones comes to life as he prophesies in obedience to God:
‘Then he said to me, ‘Prophesy to the breath; prophesy, son of man, and say to it, “This is what the Sovereign Lord says: come, breath, from the four winds and breathe into these slain, that they may live.”’ So I prophesied as he commanded me, and breath entered them; they came to life and stood up on their feet – a vast army.’ (Ezek 37:9-10)
“Breathe on me, breath of God, breathe on me
Breathe on me, breath of God, breathe on me
I come alive, I’m alive when You breathe on me
I come alive, I’m alive when You breathe on me
Awake, awake, awake my soul,
God, resurrect these bones
From death to life, through You alone
Awake my soul.” (‘Awake My Soul’, Chris Tomlin)
‘Awake My Soul’, Chris Tomlin, featuring Lecrae
As I walk the streets of Goldthorpe, this is my prayer: ‘God, breathe on these streets. Breathe on these people. God, resurrect these bones. God, where there are broken walls, repair them. Where there are streets with boarded-up houses, restore them. Where there is death, bring life.’ Only God can do this, but our God is able!
Sovereign
Towards the end of 2012, I looked back at key themes and said that I felt surrender was probably the word that best summed up all I had learnt that year. Hard on the heels of that lesson was probably the ever-growing belief (summarised in two songs in particular, ‘Even If’ and ‘Sovereign Over Us’) that God is in control and that takes a lot of the strain out of life! Even though it does not mean our lives will be free from trouble or pain, the knowledge that God is in control and is sovereign over all helps us to endure and to rejoice even in difficult circumstances.
The new album from Chris Tomlin, ‘Burning Lights’, was released this week and I have enjoyed listening to both familiar songs and new ones. Funnily enough, one song on this album also highlights this theme! It’s simply called ‘Sovereign’ and again reminds us that God is with us in every circumstance of life and can be trusted to work everything for good (Rom 8:28).
“Sovereign in the mountain air
Sovereign on the ocean floor
With me in the calm
With me in the storm
Sovereign in my greatest joy
In my deepest cry
With me in the dark
With me at the dawn
In Your everlasting arms
All the pieces of my life
From beginning to the end
I can trust You
In Your never failing love
You work everything for good
God, whatever comes my way
I will trust You
All my hopes
All I need
Held in Your hands
All my life
All of me
Held in Your hands.
All my fears
All my dreams
Held in Your hands.” (‘Sovereign’, Chris Tomlin, Martin Chalk, Jason Ingram, Matt Redman & Jonas Myrin)
‘Sovereign’, Chris Tomlin
Judging
Last night’s Bible study looked at the challenging words in James 4:11-12, where we are urged to watch our speech and avoid slander of other believers. James has already had a lot to say about the power of words in James 3. This topic is always relevant to us and always challenges us. In Psalm 34:12-13, we read “Whoever of you loves life and desires to see many good days, keep your tongue from evil and your lips from telling lies.” Words can be used to encourage, uplift and support people, but they can also be used to discourage, belittle, scorn and destroy. People whose lives are governed by God’s Spirit need to have self-control in what they speak and allow God to speak wisdom through us.
It is very easy to look down on others and to assume that we are always right. James warns against judging others. This is a topic we examined extensively when studying Romans (see Romans 14), but last night we focussed on the reasons why only God is qualified to judge. God knows everything (see Ps 139:1-4). Only He knows people’s hearts, their motivation, their thoughts, words and actions. Only He has perfect wisdom and understanding. His judgments are true and just and beyond our understanding(2 Thess 1:5, Rom 11:33. He is the righteous Judge (2 Tim 4:8). Jesus showed us how to entrust Himself to the One who judges justly by His response to those who crucified Him (1 Peter 2:23). Our tendency is to want to defend ourselves and exonerate ourselves by blaming others, but if we have learnt the value of humility, then we do not need to raise ourselves up at the expense of other people. Instead, we will learn to serve others and will be content to wait for God to judge. Jesus often refused to answer the Pharisees’ disdainful questions which were intended to trap Him, even though He was fully qualified to judge! (John 8) We need to be willing to put the needs of others before our own needs and allow God to have the final word.










