24 Days of Discipline

Psychologists tell us that it takes twenty-one days to form a new habit. If we are trying to change something in our lives, it will take time, effort, and patience.
Today is 1st December, the day when Advent calendars in all their wonderful guises make their appearance. Traditionally made to help people ‘count down’ to Christmas and to anticipate the wonder of the celebration, many calendars now include treats behind cardboard windows. The most common treats are small chocolates, but these days Advent calendars can contain toys, books, perfume, bath bombs or alcohol. (They’re clearly not all for children!) What is common to all these calendars is the principle of patience, the demands of daily discipline, for with an Advent calendar, you only open one door per day.
This daily discipline is good for the soul. The temptation is to rush ahead, to open several doors at once on Day 1! But life is about daily discipline in order to achieve long-term pleasure and to instil good habits. Delights that involve waiting, anticipation, expectation and delay are often much sweeter than the momentary gratification from the immediate.
For children in particular, waiting is hard. They see the finished picture and want to arrive at that point now. By learning the drudgery of self-discipline (there is little that is glamorous or exciting about waiting!), they reap rewards in other areas of life. Self-discipline is crucial to our spiritual growth.
So enjoy the daily rewards from Advent calendars, but use this time also to re-read the Christmas story in all its fulness, and learn the art of enjoying life one day at a time, as God intended.

Coming In December…

December is always a busy month in church life. Here’s a rundown on what is happening here.

Saturday 2 December

Our monthly coffee morning and prayer walk will be on Saturday 2 December between 10 a.m. and 12 p.m.

Sunday services

We will have morning services each Sunday in December, starting at 10.30 a.m. Evening services at 6 p.m. will be on 3, 10 and 17 December, but there will be no evening services on Sunday 24 or 31 December.

Midweek meetings

We will have midweek meetings on Thursday 7, 14 and 21 December at 7.30 p.m. with a fellowship evening on 28 December. See Julie for more details.

Churches Together Prayer Meeting – 6 December

This is on Wednesday 6 December at 1.45 p.m. at Furlong Road Methodist Church in Bolton-on-Dearne.

Christmas At The Embankment – 10 December

We will be joining the Dearne Area Team and other churches at Goldthorpe Railway Embankment on Sunday 10 December between 1 and 3 p.m. for carol singing and Christmas crafts. Wrap up warmly and come and join us! 

Parent & Toddler Parties – 15 & 20 December

Members of our Parent & Toddler group are invited to our annual Christmas parties on Friday 15 and Wednesday 20 December between 9 and 11 a.m. Join us for food, festive fun and great raffle prizes to be won!

Carol Service – 17 December

Our carol service featuring children from our Sunday school will be on Sunday 17 December at 6 p.m. Refreshments will be served after the meeting.

Christmas Afternoon Tea – 20 December

Join us for a festive afternoon tea on Wednesday 20 December between 1.00 and 2.30 p.m. to raise funds for GPCC. Adult price is £5, child price is £1.50. Contact Julie to book in.

Christmas Day Service – 25 December

‘Christmas Unwrapped’ will be on Christmas Day at 10.30 a.m. Join us to celebrate the reason for the season!

 

Real Life Problems

Fairy tales have their share of peril (big bad wolves, wicked stepmothers, plotting witches, perilous spinning wheels and so on), but they tend to end with the words ‘and they all lived happily ever after.’ As Aaron Shust reminds us, though,

‘There’s no such thing as Peter Pan,
No such place as Never Never Land,
I wish we all could have
Those tiny magic wings.

But we live in a world with wars;
It’s not like it was before.
We won’t find our happy ever after here:
There’s no such thing.’ (‘Ever After’, Aaron Shust)

Our ‘happily ever after’ does not come in this world or in this lifetime, and David is proof that living under God’s anointing and calling is no guarantee of a stress-free, problem-free life. In actual fact, trials and testings are part and parcel of life on earth because of sin, and 1 Samuel 19 reminds us that the myth of a perfect life without trouble is as much a fairy tale as those we read to our children – and about as real.

The Biblical story is rooted in reality, not myth. Troubles are real, and the Bible stories we read in the historical books are not fiction. They don’t gloss over sin or trouble or injustice or any of the things that make our world difficult to endure. But they also remind us that there is more going on in these stories than can be seen at first glance. When we take the long view of Scripture, we see God working for good in all things. (Rom 8:28) David faced murderous opposition from King Saul, even though he had done nothing to provoke this (see also Ps 59, written at this time.) David fleeing from Saul and hiding in Ramah cannot have seemed like a promising fulfilment of God’s plans for David’s life, but he learned through this difficult period to trust God as his fortress, refuge and deliverer. When we face opposition and difficult times in life, we must learn to do the same.

Waiting on God

Dave spoke tonight on Isaiah 40:31, a favourite verse of many people containing the promise of renewed strength, no matter what our age. To wait on God is illustrated in the book of Esther, when Esther, faced with the threat of the extinction of the Jews and urged to call on the king to rescind his order, told Mordecai and the other Jews to spend three days in prayer and fasting before she risked her life in approaching the king uninvited (Esther 4:14-17). When waiting on God, our weakness is exchanged for God’s strength.
Waiting on God allows us to see things from a different (divine) perspective. He enables us to run and not grow weary and to walk and not faint. He takes us further than we could manage on our own. We can use the time we wait on God to tell Him all our issues and problems, but it is in His presence that we receive courage and peace. Esther’s decision to wait on God was not cowardice or postponement or procrastination. It was a productive time of prayer when the attention of the people was fixed on God.
Timing is so important in life. God’s work achieved in God’s way will achieve great results. His strength and support will help us to work in God’s way, but these things only come as we wait on HIm.

Miraculous Deliverance

Having looked at Peter’s miraculous deliverance from prison last week (Acts 12:1-19), this morning we looked at how Paul and Silas were delivered from prison in Philipp in Acts 16:16-40 by means of an earthquake which caused the prison foundations to tremble and the chains on all prisoners to fall off.

Their imprisonment in the first place came about because of a miracle: Paul’s words to the slave woman whose fortune-telling abilities caused her to make much money for her owners but which left her under demonic oppression. Paul recognised the source of her apparently praising words (through the gift of discernment of spirits) and commanded the evil spirit to leave. Her owners were not impressed at the loss of revenue which happened as a result of this miracle and they incited the crowd and authorities to flog and imprison Paul for preaching the gospel. Some miracles might be unwelcome to us personally, but Paul and Silas, like all in the early church, were not put off by opposition and persecution. They remembered Jesus’s words (Matt 5:10-11) and understood that God’s purposes are worked out even in challenging situations. (Rom 8:28)

In actual fact, the miracle of their deliverance from prison was more for the benefit of the salvation of the Philippian jailer and his family than it was for Paul and Silas. Paul would later spend much time in prison, writing his letter to the Philippians from there. He knew that whatever circumstances he faced, God was with him for good (see Phil 1:12-18). Whether we see the miraculous deliverance of God as Paul did on this occasion or have to learn to find God in our suffering and pain, as was the case for Paul subsequently, God is able to bless us and help us. Every circumstance we face in life is meant to refine us and sharpen us so that we are more equipped to preach the gospel to others. God’s extravagant love meant He was prepared to go to miraculous lengths to save one man and his family. One man was worth a miracle – one man matters. We need to be bold and giving in our outreach, because we cannot outgive God (see 2 Cor 9:6-8). God is able to move in miraculous ways to bring people to a knowledge of HImself; we can, like Paul and SIlas, be privileged to answer the question ‘What must I do to be saved’ as they were: “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household.” (Acts 16:30-31)

Live Carefree Before God

We live in a country where anxiety is one of the chief problems facing many people, causing real misery to families and spiralling costs in terms of days off work, medical costs and social disruption. Anxiety is that gnawing worry, not necessarily linked to specific issues or causes. It is like living in permanent fog, living without peace, being unable to relax even for a moment. Nervous energy keeps many people going, but it’s a fuel which comes at the price of mental health and inner peace.

What is the Christian to do about anxiety? How can we follow Paul’s instruction to not be anxious about anything (Phil 4:6) when the slightest decision can bring us out in a cold sweat?

The Bible has a lot to say about anxiety. One of the issues associated with anxiety is helplessness, which leads to lethargy and inertia. People feel helpless about their lives. The Bible reminds us that when we are helpless (which is frequently, if we are honest), God is not. In other words, a trust in God becomes the antidote to the helplessness of anxiety. It doesn’t matter if we can’t solve the problems. God can, and even if He doesn’t, He is there with us to help us through. We don’t have to run the universe (or even our own households) on our own. God is there to help. It’s His job.

Paul’s antidote to anxiety, the reason he can be so cheerfully confident even when in prison, is to bring all our requests to God in prayer. (Phil 4:6-7) Peter tells us to cast our anxiety on God because He cares for us. (1 Pet 5:7) We can live carefree before God because He most certainly cares for us.

Children don’t worry about where the next meal is coming from or how the frazzled parent will buy the Christmas presents they are confidently asking for (or at least, they shouldn’t have to.) That’s not their problem. We too don’t have to carry our problems with us. We can safely leave them with God and marvel then at the miraculous ways He sorts things out.

Anxiety is crippling, debilitating, sorrow-inducing and frankly too heavy a burden for us to bear. Let God daily bear your burdens (Ps 6819, Matt 11:28-30) so you don’t have to.