Navigating Ingratitude

2 Samuel 10 tells the story of kindness that is received suspiciously and with mistrust, and what happens when war is chosen over peacemaking. David tries to show kindness to a foreign leader on the death of his father (Hanun, son of Nahash, king of the Ammonites), but his actions are viewed with mistrust, the leaders ascribing hostile motives to his expression of sympathy, resulting in brutal violence to the king’s envoys. (2 Sam 10:1-5)
Such inflammatory actions (including amassing mercenaries to fight against Israel) understandably provoke a reaction (2 Sam 10;5-8), reminding us that the cycle of retaliation and retribution can only really be broken through forgiveness and love. War is the sad result, but Joab (the Israelite commander) recognises that all he can do is prepare and work hard; ‘the Lord will do what is right in His sight.’ (2 Sam 10:12) We do well to realise that victory ultimately comes from God; our preparation and hard work are what are required of us, but He brings the victory.
The senselessness of the slaughter listed in this chapter grieves us and reminds us that to be offended is easy, but to forgive and move on requires humility and trust in God’s ultimate justice. Misunderstandings can escalate quickly; we need to keep short records with others and give people the benefit of the doubt at times. ‘A gentle answer turns away wrath’ Prov 15:1 tells us, and if we are to live as peace-makers, we must learn to defuse tensions by being rooted in truth, practising forgiveness and learning to love even our enemies, as Jesus commanded. (Matt 5:43-48)

Light of the World

Tonight in our Little Big Church service, we looked again at the subject of light. We did science experiments involving prisms, shining light on them to reveal the different colours of the rainbow, and shining a torch on a glass of water to show how refraction makes the arrows behind the glass appear to reverse direction! We talked about different sources of light, including the sun, moon and stars and animals which light up like jellyfish and glow worms.

 

In the Bible, we are told that Jesus is the Light of the world (John 8:12), another one of the ‘I am’ statements in John’s Gospel that indicates the deity of Jesus (since God is light – 1 John 1:5). Those who follow Jesus have the light of life and indeed Jesus says that we are now the light of the world too. (Matt 5:14) Jesus’s light in us shines in us and through us. It’s not a temporary light, like the lights we see when we have firework displays. They are spectacular, bright and dazzling, but they don’t last long! We are more like street lights, standing firm and strong, shining consistently.

 

 

Christmas is a time when we think a lot about lights and use lights a lot more than usual: Christmas tree lights, lights in our windows, Advent candles and so on. As we enter the season of Advent, let’s continue to shine brightly, for when we follow Jesus, the Light of the world, we don’t have to be afraid of darkness, for He gives us the light of life.

Worthy Of His Calling

Garry spoke this morning from 2 Thessalonians 1:11-12, another of Paul’s prayers that God will make them ‘worthy of his calling.’ To be worthy of God’s calling means we must understand God calls us to repentance (Acts 17:29-31) so that we can experience the fulness of life He offers us. All who respond to God’s call are the elect (see Ezek 33:10-11); we can refuse God’s call if we choose to, but to do so would be harmful to us as God always wants what is best for us.
God is able to keep us (see Jude 1:24, Phil 1:6, 1 Pet 1:3-5) but our part is to continue in the faith (Col 1:22-23) and to cultivate faith, not unbelief, in our hearts. (Heb 3:12-14) We must not reject (push away) God’s grace and must strive to keep our love from going cold (Matt 24:12).
We are called to a fresh start (see Eph 2:1-10) and to a new relationship with God (John 1:12). We are called to a new life (Rom 6:5-7) and to hope (Eph 1:18). We are called to reign with God (2 Tim 2:11-12) and to a holy life. (2 Tim 1:9). To live like this is possible because God has made it possible. Now we are ambassadors for Christ (2 Cor 5:19-20), chosen so that we might be for the praise of God’s glory. (Eph 1:11-13) We are not on our own but can live a life worthy of His calling by following Him closely, showing what He has done and declaring to all what He can do.

Enlarge Your Territory!

Guest speaker Joy Gascoigne from Grimethorpe Pentecostal Church spoke tonight from Exodus 34:24 on God enlarging our territory. God’s plan from the beginning has always been for people to live well under His blessing. The Garden of Eden was a wonderful place of blessings, but we see that even after the Fall, God’s plan has been to bless mankind and to work with people.
Isaiah 54:2 urges us to ‘enlarge your tent.’ If we want to be enlarged, we must live in line with God’s desires, living within the principles of God. If we live honourably and with high standards, not allowing the past to define us, then God has promised to bless us. God is greater than our past and we do not have to live with the labels other people have given us.
We are enlarged ultimately when we obey God. Ps 18:21 speaks of the deliverance from enemies which God brings because David ‘kept the ways of the Lord.’ Prov 11:24 tells us ‘One person gives freely, yet gains even more; another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty.’ Generosity is a pathway to blessing.
Ultimately we are enlarged because of God’s faithfulness to us and because of the largeness of the Spirit of God within us. Our God is indeed a great big God!

The Suffering And The Glory

Dave spoke this morning from Mark 9:2-9, the account of Jesus’s Transfiguration. There, on the mountain top, Jesus was completely transfigured before three disciples who saw a brilliant light and saw Elijah and Moses as well as hearing a voice from heaven. The transfiguration gave the disciples a glimpse into Jesus’s true nature; unlike people who have plastic surgery and change the outward appearance without being able to change the inner nature, this incident did not change Jesus’s nature but simply allowed others to see it. This is often referred to as a ‘mountain top experience,’ and it’s true we need these experiences when God’s glory seems to be revealed to us more plainly than usual. Faith is more than a rational, educated response to God; we need the supernatural experiences which help us to see the eternal world more clearly. These experiences where we glimpse glory are vital; moments when the transcendent nature of God is real to us are precious.

Peter definitely thought this experience was more in line with what he expected of the Messiah than Jesus’s prophecies about death and crucifixion (see Mark 8). He longed to stay on the mountain-top, to build shelters for Elijah, Moses and Jesus and to stay there. His view was that ‘where the Messiah is, there is no misery.’ What he needed to learn was that there was another mountain to be faced, Golgotha, before full glory could be experienced. The truth is that where there is misery, there is the Messiah. Jesus is both the Son of God and the Son of Man and we cannot have the glory without the suffering. The two things go hand in hand, and we have to leave the momentary glory of the Mount of Transfiguration to come down to the valley of everyday life, where there are disputes and healings and work to be done. We simply cannot live on the mountain top all the time, crucial though these experiences are to our faith and Christian walk; we have to understand that there are twin peaks in the Christian life – suffering and glory – and Christ is with us in both.

 

Kindness

At last night’s Bible study we looked at 2 Samuel 9, a chapter which shows us David’s kindness and willingness to keep a promise as he seeks out Mephibosheth from Jonathan’s family so that he can show ‘God’s kindness‘ to him. Mephibosheth, crippled at the age of five and living in Lo-Debar, is welcomed into the king’s presence, has his grandfather’s lands restored to him and is welcomed to eat at the king’s table from this moment onwards. This is a picture of our lives before we knew God and after we have received His grace and mercy, as we are ushered into His presence, given acceptance, blessings and communion with Him!
Kindness is one of the attributes of God (see Rom 2:4, Luke 6:36), and we are urged to reflect His nature (see Eph 4:32, 2 Tim 2:24). As many have commented, kindness reaches people when words do not. We looked at some of the things people have said about kindness:
• “In a world where you can be anything, be kind.” (Jennifer Dukes Lee)
• “Unexpected kindness is the most powerful, least costly, and most underrated agent of human change.” (Bob Kerrey)
• “Kindness is the language that the deaf can hear and the blind can see.” (Mark Twain)
• “You can never know the ripple effect you create with one tiny gesture of kindness.” (Elle Sommer)
As we receive God’s kindness, we should let it spill over to others. (Luke 6:38) What random acts of kindness can we show today? How can our speech and actions reflect kindness?