Breaking the vicious circle of worry
Stephen preached this morning on worrying, asking and receiving.
Matthew 6:25-34 gives us Jesus’s advice about worrying, telling us “Do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink or about your body, what you will wear.” Jesus emphasises that people are important to God and that He is always there to love us, protect us, guide us and provide for us.
In Matthew 7:7-12, Jesus goes on to give us ways of dealing with worry, namely, “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” To combat worry, we need to talk to God, but it’s all too easy to pray and then to carry on worrying, as if our asking has no effect on the situations we’re praying about!
This tendency to fail to see the answers God provides and therefore to continue to worry is shown in Acts 12:12-16, where the church was fervently praying for Peter’s deliverance from prison but were actually so astonished when he turned up at the door that he was left there! We are often not ready to receive the answer God gives or we can misinterpret what He says or does. We can fail to see God’s miraculous answers and end up worrying again. In order to break the vicious circle of worry, however, we have to both ask God for His help and recognise the answers when they come. As the circle of worry is broken, it can be replaced by our thankfulness.
Community action
In the original application for funding to CRT to purchase St Mark’s, we wrote that
“The move to larger, more centrally located premises will also enable the church to expand its range of community provision.” Being a church at the heart of a community and serving our local community were both key aims, as our name indicates.
Since moving into the building last year, we have certainly seen those aims fulfilled. The church has started a coffee morning on Saturday mornings which is well attended by local residents (and which keeps the market stall holders warm throughout winter by providing them with hot drinks!) We also run badminton evenings for adults, which are attended by both church members and those who don’t attend meetings regularly – all are welcome to enjoy some exercise and fellowship. These are new activities, in addition to the children’s and youth clubs run on Monday nights and the Parent & Toddler group held on Friday mornings which have formed the backbone of our community work for many years.
In addition to these church-led activities, the building is now starting to be hired by other groups, since its central location and excellent facilities are helpful to them as well. The local Alzheimer’s Society has launched a new dementia cafe at the church (called the Forget-Me-Not cafe), meeting on the first Wednesday of every month from 11.00 a.m. until 1.30 p.m. Anne Simmons, the Support Service Manager, comments that “Dementia cafes provide a relaxed meeting place for people who have memory problems, their carers and familieis. We are trying to reach out to more carers and people living with dementia and the new cafe will help us to accomplish this in the Dearne Valley area.”
Slimming World has also started holding sessions here on Thursdays (one starting at 5 p.m. and one at 7 p.m.) and a badminton club meet on Wednesday evenings, with children’s parties often being booked for Saturday afternoons.
We are thrilled to see the building used so much by local people and are excited to see our vision for being a benefit and help to the community being fulfilled.
… and music
Badminton…
A local badminton group used to use the community hall when the Methodist church owned the building and have continued to use it since we took over the building. That, in turn, has prompted church members to play badminton regularly on Friday nights.
Here are some photos showing the competitive natures of some church members…
You can run, but you can’t hide, Tony!
Victory!

After praying for Chile, the ladies took their turn! (Apparently Debbie & Diane are affectionately known in badminton circles as ‘The Double Ds’…!)


Buenas noches, Chile!
The Women’s World Day of Prayer is an annual event held on the first Friday in March, uniting Christians from all denominations and all countries to pray for one country in particular each year. This year, it was Chile’s turn! Stretching from Peru to Antarctica, Chile is a narrow strip of land 2,640 miles long and 110 miles wide, also owning Easter Island in the Pacific.
Famous for its snow-covered Andes mountain range, the driest desert in the world (the Atacama) and a lovely Pacific coastline, Chile came to the world’s attention last year when 33 miners were trapped, and ultimately rescued, from one of the country’s mines. The whole world rejoiced as the miners were successfully brought to the surface and it was marvellous to hear the testimonies of the men about God’s presence and help in their difficult ordeal.
A number of churches in Goldthorpe celebrated the Women’s World Day of Prayer at the parish church. Local women dressed in native clothes and baked bread to underline the meeting’s theme ‘How Many Loaves Have You?’


We got to taste the bread at the end!
These women are in traditional Chilean dress, with the Chilean flag:
The service included Bible readings from 1 Kings 17 and Mark 6:30-44, information about life in Chile, a variety of songs (including some in Spanish!), prayers for that country and the rest of the world and a sermon which looked at the need for us to be thankful for God’s provision so that we can use what we have in our hands for His service. Children’s activities were also provided. An offering for projects run by Christian charities was taken and refreshments were very kindly served by the parish church afterwards.

Many thanks to all the local ladies who worked so hard at making this a really successful event.
I believe… help my unbelief
The words of the man in this story in Mark 9 (“I believe; help my unbelief”) are reminiscent of where we often are in our relationship with God. Prior to this scene, Jesus had been transfigured, glowing with glory, talking with Moses and Elijah. God had spoken from the cloud, affirming Jesus’s identity and urging His disciples to listen to His beloved Son. On returning from the mountain, Jesus faced a dispute between the scribes and His disciples, in the midst of which there was a boy who needed healing and deliverance.
Jesus had commissioned His disciples previously and given them power to heal, but at this point, they must have felt like failures. When Jesus arrived on the scene, however, people were amazed. He spoke to them, calling them a ‘faithless generation’ (Mk 9:19) and asking the boy’s father who long he had been suffering like this (Mk 9:21). He asked the question so that others could understand the extent of the suffering and appreciate the miracle of healing. Jesus wanted to speak faith into the man’s life.
In Mk 9:23, Jesus assures the man that “everything is possible for one who believes.” It is this radical assertion which prompts the man’s response: “I believe; help my unbelief.” When Jesus steps in to situations, hopelessness is transformed. Doubt and unbelief so easily rob us of blessing. We need to pray with the same honesty and heartfelt integrity as the boy’s father and in doing so, we will see Jesus transform all our impossible situations.
“Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.” (Eph 3:20-21)



