Saint Lucia is a Caribbean island situated between the Caribbean Sea and North Atlantic Ocean, north of Trinidad and Tobago. When it’s cold and dank in England in February (‘February’s ice and sleet freeze the toes right off your feet’, according to Flanders and Swann!), a Caribbean paradise like Saint Lucia seems an idyllic escape, well worth fantasising over:

The island’s ownership was contested between England and France throughout the 17th and early 18th centuries (changing possession 14 times); it was finally ceded to the UK in 1814 and English is the official language there. However, the original name given by the ancient Amerindian settlers was ‘Louanalao’ or ‘Iouanalao’ which is translated as ‘Island of the iguanas’. Igor’s home!

The first settlers from South America must have indeed thought Saint Lucia was a paradise island: green, fertile, uninhabited. Over the years, Europeans discovered this Caribbean paradise and the French influence is still seen through the place names, food and the Creole dialect that is still spoken.

So, as we endure winter in England, Igor reminds us of warmer climes and sandy beaches…!

And Paul reminds us, perhaps most importantly, that we have a glorious future awaiting us: “I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.” (Rom 8:19) John also talks about this: “Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears,we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.”(1 John 3:2)

“There will be a day with no more tears
No more pain, and no more fears
There will be a day when the burdens of this place
Will be no more, we’ll see Jesus face to face
But until that day, we’ll hold on to You always.” (Jeremy Camp, ‘There Will Be A Day’)

Kevin looked at James 5:1-6 in the Bible study last night, identifying 4 warnings to the rich:

1) the dangers of hoarding
Matt 19:16-23 talks about the rich young ruler who, though outwardly obedient to God’s commandments, still failed to enter God’s kingdom because he focussed on the wrong things and ultimately neglected God. Matt 6:19-21 reminds us that where are treasures are, there our hearts will be also. What we set our hearts on determine our ultimate goals. We need to hold onto the world’s possessions lightly.

2) the meanness of wealth
Rich people often withheld wages from their servants and were not fair with money. Lev 19:13, Mal 3:5 and Jer 22:13 all talk about the sins we can so easily commit with money. God’s character is just and He demands justice and fairness from all, especially those with wealth. Wealth is to be used wisely!

3) the dangers of hoping in wealth
It is dangerous to put one’s hope in wealth. Heb 13:5 urges us to be content with what we have, a sentiment echoed in 1 Tim 6:17-19, where we are urged to keep our lives free from the love of money. Phil 4:11-13 reminds us of the need to be content with whatever we have, content because we have found the ultimate treasure in Christ.

4) injustice
The rich took advantage of the weak. In Rom 12:17-21, we are urged not to seek revenge. There is far more to life than riches. Trusting in God helps us to live without an over-reliance on wealth and frees us from trying to take matters into our own hands. God is the just judge and we leave justice in His capable hands.

One of the prayer pointers for February is for Christian organisations working in schools. There are a whole host of charities who are involved with schools’ work. Perhaps the most well known of these are Scripture Union and Youth for Christ. Both charities employ youth workers and have teams of workers who go into schools regularly to take lessons and assemblies; they also seek to make links with local churches and work with youth workers there to equip the local church to have effective ministries to children and young people. Many secondary schools have Christian Unions for pupils, but often these need the input of Christian staff and volunteers to be successful. Scripture Union also provides a lot of literature for children, including the ‘It’s Your Move!’ book for Y6 children about to move to secondary school. At £14 for 10 copies, we could, as a church, have a significant impact on young people in our area through the distribution of this booklet, perhaps.

Many local churches have some input into local schools. Primary schools are often very willing for ministers and church workers to visit to take assemblies or lessons on RE topics. Pray for all those who are able to visit schools in this way. Some of the larger churches in the area have ‘schools’ teams’ who work regularly in schools.

There are a number of other charities who can provide information, resources and help for parents, children, young people and Christian teachers. These include:

1) Care for the Family, who run excellent parenting courses and holidays and often hold regional seminars in Sheffield or Leeds
2) Rainbow Trust, working with families of children with terminal illnesses
3) The Children’s Charity, working with disadvantaged children (running a network of programmes which includes drop-in services for runaways, children’s centres and support for young carers. We support children who are refugees from violence, and we give those in care a voice.
4) The Boys’ Brigade, running a number of children’s and youth clubs for boys
5) Girls’ Brigade, running a number of children’s and youth clubs for girls.

As we pray for our local schools, let’s pray for the children and young people who attend, but let’s also remember the many other influences on their lives. Christian charities and churches work within the local schools, but they are often active in local communities as well, offering support and activities for children and young people outside of school hours. Let’s pray for all the Christian workers and for schools to be willing to allow Christian input. There are so many opportunities for witness and teaching within the curriculum, but it is not always easy to gain access to schools or to win the respect and trust of young people.

It is hard not to have a vested interest in the prayer focus for February when you are a Christian teacher! The first points Mark has highlighted for prayer are that:

1. God will bless and encourage Christian teachers
2. Through these teachers, the school will have some Christian input.

All teachers need our prayers. Teaching is a stressful profession, juggling many different tasks. The public view of the job often only sees the ‘public’ face of teaching: someone in a classroom for a limited number of hours, five days a week, for only 37 weeks a year. “All those holidays! All those training days! All those free evenings!” In reality, teachers have both a ‘public’ and a ‘private’ face, often spending hours at home preparing lessons, marking books or keeping up with a seemingly never-ending stream of paperwork that is constantly changing, being judged by inspectors, governors, parents and children at regular intervals. Keeping meticulous paperwork, planning lessons that are entertaining as well as instructive, coaxing unwilling pupils to work whilst at the same time extending those who are keen, marking assessments, tracking pupils’ progress, looking after social issues, teaching ethics as yet another classroom argument or playground fight needs defusing whilst negotiating training costs or a never-increasing budget are all part and parcel of a teacher’s ordinary workload. League tables, exam results, performance-related pay are all things that influence the everyday and yet these things often seem to bear no relation to the reasons teachers go into the profession: usually because they have a love for a subject and care for children and young people. The road between the ideal and the real often seems increasingly wide. Many teachers are stressed, worn out and feel under-valued and demoralised. Bringing Christian input into these situations can seem an impossible dream for many Christian teachers.

Pray for the staff in all our local schools. The headteachers in particular need wisdom, guidance, protection and good humour to negotiate the minefield that is a modern school. They have to act as managers and juggle with finances; they have to cope with a wide range of staffing needs; they have to safeguard and work with children and young people to help them learn, often when many of the children and young people seem to have no active interest in learning!

The headteachers in our area are (according to Barnsley Council online):
Goldthorpe Primary School – Mrs Fields (Acting Head)

Sacred Heart Roman Catholic Primary School – Ms Curran
(the school’s motto is “Together we believe that each person is gifted, unique and loved by God and therefore worthy of deep respect”. Let’s pray that this motto is evident in each member of the school.)

Dearne Highgate Primary School – Mrs Leishmann

The Dearne ALC – Mrs Robinson

(If you have any more up-to-date information on these schools and specific prayer requests for staff there, please let us know.)

Pray also for the Governing Bodies in these schools. These are the people who have responsibility for the management of the school, often working in school on a voluntary, unpaid basis. Pray that many Christian governors will be able to be salt and light in this role and that other Christians will consider this type of role as a key way of contributing to their local community.

February is the month of love, with Valentine’s Day being an annual reminder that undying love must be declared! The origins of this day are unclear. One legend has it that the emperor only allowed men of a certain age to marry (since single men could be sent to war and married men were more reluctant to go!) and Valentine was a monk who felt this was wrong and so allowed younger men to marry, thereby incurring the emperor’s wrath and being martyred for this. Another legend has Valentine as a monk who helped Christians who were being persecuted by the Romans and who again was killed for his help. Other legends believe that Valentine’s Day originates from a fertility festival to honour the god of agriculture. Whatever the origins, by the 17th century it was commonplace to send handwritten notes declaring love to a beloved, but without signing a name to these declarations; by the 20th century, the advent of printed cards revolutionised the day (and made big business for card companies!)

Our willingness to go along with the commercialisation of love indicates a deep-seated need to be loved that is felt by every human. We all want to be loved as we are, to be fully known and fully accepted. This was how it was meant to be in the beginning, with God creating man for relationship with Him, but as sin entered the world, mankind pushed God away, leaving a gaping hole in our hearts which we often seek to fill through other things.

Garry spoke about a 2-storey building in Sheffield that was demolished to build 5-storey flats on the same location. The foundations needed strengthening, but it was only when concrete was brought in to fill the gap that it was realised the original building was built on an old Victorian aqueduct. The actual amount of concrete needed to fill this hole far exceeded expectations. In the same way, no human being – however loving and kind – can fill the hole in our hearts that can only be filled by God.

Jeremiah 2:13 tells us that Israel’s sin was to forsake God, the spring of living water, and to dig their own cisterns. God is the source of pure, life-giving water. Water from our own broken cisterns will not satisfy.

However unloved we may feel, the fact remains that we have never been unloved. God has loved us with an everlasting love (Jer 3:31). His love is ‘no emotional reaction, but rather a unilateral love shaped by His character.’ (Henry Morriss III) God’s love for us is unconditional and continuous.

Even Christians can hold God at a distance, building walls to defend ourselves from hurt. But God sees through all our defences and wants to meet our deepest needs. There is ‘so much more to be revealed’, but we need to be willing to receive His love and accept that His love can meet our deepest needs.

As Michael W. Smith has sung, no matter how unworthy, unwise, unwilling and unteachable we have been, the one thing we know is that we have never been unloved. ‘It’s because of You, and all that You went through, I know that I have never been unloved.’
‘Never Been Unloved’, Michael W. Smith

Tonight’s family service looked at the theme of ‘Unloved’. Mark organised a quiz for us to identify unwanted or unloved or obsolete objects:

I hope you’re better at guessing what these are than I was!
1) Vinyl LP
2) Old steam iron
3) Broken heart
4) Holey socks
5) CD player & cassette player

As usual, there were prizes to be won:

There were even prizes for the teams with the lowest scores!