Christmas Afternoon Tea

Our Christmas Afternoon Tea was attended by 25 adults and 11 children (several had to drop out at the last minute due to illness or hospital appointments) and raised £188 for church funds.

We’re very grateful to all who baked, made sandwiches, donated food and helped to set up and clear away. Thanks also to the Salvation Army for loaning us tablecloths and crockery so that it was a ‘posh do’!

Parent & Toddler Party (2)

We had a wonderful time at our second Parent & Toddler Christmas party, with great food (thanks to Bev for her buns!) and bubbles (thanks to Beckie for her bubble machine!) Children received presnts, including books donated by the Snap Tin Community Hub and selection boxes (some donated by Tesco’s in Wath-on-Dearne) and adults enjoyed winning raffle prizes (donated by parents).

Please note that the Parent & Toddler group is now closed for Christmas. We will be back on Wednesday 10 January 2024, God willing, and are open on Wednesday and Friday mornings in term-time between 9 and 11 a.m. £1 per family, including drinks and toast.

The Joy Of Trials

James offers us a different perspective on joy when he writes, ‘Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.’ (James 1:2-3) Most of us balk at this notion. How can trials be considered joy, let alone ‘pure joy’? Most of us want to avoid trials. We don’t like difficulties in any shape or form. We don’t feel like welcoming them as friends (as J. B. Phillips puts it) or seeing trials as gifts (except perhaps the kind of gift you can immediately return to the shop to be exchanged for something else!)

James assures us that ‘the testing of your faith produces perseverance’ and goes on to say that perseverance is necessary to make us complete, to bring us to maturity. (James 1:3-4) When we see trials in this light, as a refining process which actually produces something good in us, we are less likely to be resentful of them and more able to find joy even in the hard times. Jesus promised to give us His joy (see John 15:11, 16:24), a promise we can rest on every day of our lives.

 

Hard Work and Celebration

Today at GPCC we will be celebrating: it’s our final Parent & Toddler party this morning and then we’re having a Christmas afternoon tea in the afternoon. As with all celebrations, work and joy go hand in hand. We will be making sandwiches, preparing food, setting up, tidying away, washing up and setting up again, all in the space of a few hours. I expect by the end of the day we’ll feel exhausted!
Similar things happen in every household over the Christmas period: people buying food and drink, preparing lavish meals, cooking for extended family, and having to tidy it all up afterwards. Celebrations can be hard work! As my mother used to say as she baked for Christmas, ‘there aren’t any fairies in this house.’
But the work is part of the joy. The work reminds us that we are helping others, that seeing the smiles on people’s faces, the gasps as they look at our culinary works of art, is reward. Teamwork can be one of the great blessings of this time of year, as we work together to celebrate. Solo celebrations are nowhere near as much fun.
Don’t stress about celebrating this year. If our meals are not as fancy as we would like, that’s not the end of the world. What really matters is the joy of sharing and the pleasure of helping.

The Pathway to Joy

I firmly believe that the pathway to joy is lined with the daily discipline of giving thanks. Paul says, ‘Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.’ (1 Thessalonians 5:18) He goes even further in Ephesians 5:20, saying, ‘always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.’

 

We become thankful, joyful people by joyfully giving thanks. It’s as simple as that. It’s a daily discipline. Pollyanna learned to play the ‘glad game’, finding reasons to be glad in every circumstance that came her way. Somehow, we find it much easier to list our complaints and moans and groans than we do to give thanks, but as we stop to count our blessings and think of reasons to be cheerful, our attitudes change, and we realise how blessed we are. Then we are, as C. S. Lewis put it, ‘surprised by joy.’

The Miracle of Christmas

The song ‘Miracle In The Town’ contains the lyrics:
‘Two thousand years ago,
In a town that we all know,
Underneath the brightest star,
People came from near and far.
Little did they realise
That right before their very eyes,
A miracle was happening in the town:
Astonishing, amazing miracle in the town.
Astonishing, amazing miracle in the town.
Born in a lowly stall,
Baby Jesus, here for all,
There upon the straw and hay,
Now we call it Christmas Day,
But the people there and then,
They never knew in Bethlehem,
A miracle was happening in the town.’ (‘Miracle In The Town’, Tom Kirkham & Matthew Crossey)
Tonight at our carol service, we explored the miracle of Christmas, commenting on the fact that God intervened in human history in miraculous ways (angels appearing to Zechariah, Mary and Joseph and then to shepherds, a star guiding wise men from the East, an immaculate conception and a Saviour born who was fully human and fully God.) Without God’s miraculous intervention, there would be no Christmas and no salvation. But at the same time, the paradox is that Jesus came as a lowly baby, born in less-than-perfect accommodation and relatively few people knew about His arrival. He was ‘in very nature God’, as Paul puts it (Phil 2:6), but He ‘did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.’ (Phil 2:6-7) The miracle is clothed in the mundane: contrary to what the carol says, Jesus did cry as a baby; He was just like us!
We too live in an imperfect world. Our Christmas comes with financial pressures and family fallouts, with ill health and problems. We find as we enter into the Christmas story each year that God truly is Immanuel, God with us. He is there is in the everyday and the mundane just as much as in the miraculous; He is there with us through thick and thin. We have good news of a miracle-working God, but we also have a God who knows what it is to be fully human and who, because He is sinless, is able to be a high priest and atoning sacrifice, bringing us back to God. (See Heb 2:18)
Christmas gives us the opportunity to embrace Jesus and to be part of the family of God who know and receive the astonishing, amazing miracle that happened that first Christmas. Don’t be like the majority who did not realise God was working in that town. Be like the shepherds and the wise men: come and worship Jesus and in your hearts set Him apart as Lord.