The twin themes of the wedding at church were music and photography. Stacey has tremendous eyesight, which is obviously a plus for someone passionate about photography, but she also has tremendous vision in the second meaning of that word (not just faculty of sight, but the ability to think about or plan the future with imagination and wisdom.)

Right from the start, Stacey had very clear vision about what she wanted her wedding to be like. She wanted a service that honoured God and a reception that had the ‘wow’ factor. She was adamant that she wanted her wedding at her own church and that the reception should be in the community room, but she also wanted that room to be ‘stunning.’ In her words, she wanted people to walk into the room and say ‘I never thought this room could look like this.’ I wish I could count the number of times I actually heard people say that on Friday.

For vision to succeed, however, other people and hard work are usually needed. Visionaries are not always practical people and team effort is required to make visions into reality. The wedding on Friday proved that in abundance.

The first thing Stacey wanted was to create a photographic backdrop to the room which would enhance the photos. Covering the stage partition was no mean feat; it’s a vast area. We had to consult other people with sewing skills and practical ideas to work out how to actually do this. A good friend of mine, Ruth Pettitt, agreed to work on this idea, sewing material together tirelessly on the hen do and then working with a friend (thanks, Emma!)  until after 11 p.m. on Thursday night to put 300 fairy lights through this material to create the shimmery effect Stacey wanted. Leron (best man) and Stephen (groom) then had to climb scaffolding to staple this creation to the wooden frame around the stage:

The moment that we actually switched the lights on and the whole thing sparkled will remain in my memory for a long time.

The next idea Stacey had was a ‘ceiling full of pompoms’ to create a visual statement of colour (her colour scheme was pink, white and silver). Whilst cost soon put a dampener on this idea (and visionaries must always wrestle with the cold facts of life), we worked on making pompoms and attaching these to create colour and drama. Logistics required engineering skill and precision: attaching pompoms to hoops, ribbons to hoops and then hoops to rafters:

The overall effect, however, was indeed stunning.

The vision continued: transforming blue chairs and tables into a fully coordinated colour scheme through table and chair covers; using flowers to create beauty all around; having a cake that combined both themes with such attention to detail it was breath-taking; a seating plan that had music as its background and so on. The overall effect was lovely.

The spiritual lessons from this are there for all to see. ‘Where there is no vision, the people perish’ (Prov 29:18); we all need vision and revelation to aspire to something greater and better than we already have. But visionaries need practical people too; we all need each other if we are to see vision become reality. The sheer number of people involved in the wedding was considerable, all bringing their own particular skills to the table (Julie Stead’s napkin-folding abilities, Ruth Coombs’ flower arranging skills, the confectionery skills of Lisa Beddoe of Crossgates Cakes, not to mention the army of church volunteers who folded, carried, baked, made sandwiches, climbed scaff9lding, weeded, washed up, tided away and served with good humour and generosity). We are a body and work best when all the parts of that body work together. May God not only give us vision, but the skill, determination, patience and perseverance to see vision become reality.

On Wednesday and Thursday, an army of volunteers arrived in different shifts (morning, afternoon and evening) to prepare for the wedding of Stephen and Stacey, which will take place today (Friday 11th September) at 1 p.m. We cannot possibly convey our heartfelt thanks to all who willingly gave time and effort in these preparations, but let this be the first of many THANK YOUs…

Behind the scenes, there has been baking…

… and weeding outside…

Then the scaffolding was put up in order to be able to do the decorations in the community room:

Bridegroom and best man worked tirelessly on pompoms:

… though there was time for a lunch break!

There were games to prepare and balloons to inflate!

… and table decorations and flowers to prepare:

… and finally, late into the night, friends worked on a backdrop for the reception:

Now it’s time to enjoy!

There is a flurry of activity happening at church all week as we prepare for the wedding of Stephen and Stacey on Friday 11th September at 1 p.m. For all those travelling to the venue, please note that there will be no parking in the church car park, but there is a car park available further down Market Street on the left.

A wedding is always a special occasion and church members and friends are working busily behind the scenes to decorate the building in many different ways and to prepare food for the reception which will be held in the community room after the service. Our thanks to all involved; please do pray for the happy couple as they prepare to take this huge step of marriage.

There will be no prayer meeting or Bible study tomorrow (Thursday), but preparation will be ongoing for the wedding, so if you are available to help, you can come along to that!

Because of the wedding, there will be no Parent & Toddler Group this Friday, but normal service will be resumed next Friday (18th September). All other services are unaffected, but remember that the Sunday morning service this coming Sunday (13th September) is at Cherry Tree Court at 10.30 a.m.

Prefixes and suffixes are sets of letters that are added to the beginning or end of another word; by adding these, the meaning of the word is altered. Thus, ‘possible’ is given the opposite meaning by adding the prefix im- to the beginning of the word, creating the word ‘impossible’; by adding the suffix -less to the word ‘hope’, the opposite meaning is created (‘hopeless‘).

For years I have only really considered the prefix ‘un-‘ in a negative light. I could think of plenty of negative words created by this little prefix: unimportant, unkind, unloving, uncouth, unappreciated, unfaithful, uncomfortable, uncommunicative, to name but a few. But today, I realised that this prefix can actually convey positive things as well: think of unworried, unspoiled, unconditional, unruffled and unabashed. In some circumstances, a word with a usually negative connotation (eg unrelenting or unsung) can be positive when applied to specific situations (God’s unrelenting love or an unsung hero, for example.)

When I was younger, my grandparents would often comment on how people were categorised as ‘good ‘uns’ or ‘wrong ‘uns’, depending on their actions. (‘You don’t want to be friends with X; he’s a wrong ‘un.‘) Here, the ‘un’ is a lazy abbreviation of ‘one’, but it did make me smile as I realised that the prefix un- can indeed be classed as good as well as bad, depending on the word it qualifies! Instead of automatically shunning this prefix, I have come to see that there are indeed some ‘good uns’ I should seek to incorporate into my life! Certainly, an unhurried life with Jesus is one thing I long to have:

… and this poster also captures my mood as I face a week of great busyness!

When we first pick up a Bible, it can seem utterly confusing, rather like opening a jigsaw box and seeing pieces strewn everywhere!

We have to understand that the Bible is actually 66 books within one book, all dealing with different aspects of life as God reveals it. These books actually form different genres or categories:

These often form interlocking pieces, helping to understand different aspects of God’s revelation (through the Law, through history, through poetry, through letters and so on.)

Some parts of the Bible may be easier to understand than others, just as some jigsaws are easier than others (3D jigsaws are particularly difficult, for example.)

However, 2 Tim 3:16 reminds us that all Scripture is God-breathed and has a purpose in shaping our lives, teaching, rebuking, correcting and training us in righteousness. Hebrews 4:12 tells us that God’s word  is ‘alive and active and sharper than any double-edged sword’, a word that is better than bread itself, a word that feeds us and sustains us (Matt 4:4) and dwells in us richly (Col 3:16) and creates faith in us (Rom 10:17) so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide, we might have hope. (Rom 15:4) The jigsaw pieces we took home (which had these Bible verses on) remind us of the importance of God’s word in our daily lives and how God wants to shape our piece of the jigsaw into His overall plan to make us like His Son. (Rom 8:28-29)

Mark’s game at the family service looked at using biscuits to make pictures; teams had to re-create pictures using only broken pieces of biscuits! Can you guess what these pictures represent?

These were meant to be a dolphin, a dog, an aeroplane and a Maltese cross!