Role Models
A role model is a person who leads by example, ideally someone whose lifestyle inspires us to follow in ways that will be helpful and beneficial to others. Celebrities are often perceived as role models because of the influence they have on impressionable young people. As Garry discussed on Sunday, however, celebrities are not, simply by virtue of their fame, necessarily good role models, for to be a good role model we need values as well as behaviour that are worthy of emulation. There’s far more to life than how we look, what clothes we wear or how much money we have!
Children learn behaviour by watching others and copying what they see. They learn to speak by listening to others and imitating what they say. It is therefore crucial that our speech and behaviour are worth copying!
Paul’s letters to TImothy, a young pastor left in charge of the church at Ephesus, urge him to ‘set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.’ (1 Tim 4:12) He often speaks of himself as a father to believers whose example should be followed (see 1 Cor 11:1, 1 Thess 1:6). This is a sobering thought for each one of us. What example are we setting others? Is there consistency in how we live? (values are rarely taught as such, but are definitely ‘caught’ by our children!)
Paul gives us areas to examine:
- how we speak and what we say (our words and tone of voice should encourage and build others up, not denigrate them and discourage them; our speech needs to build faith in people, not sow seeds of doubt and ideas of failure.)
- how we live (showing consistency of behaviour, not moodiness or manipulation; we should be people whose lives are upright, honest, without guile or deceit.)
- how we love (always the bottom line when it comes to motive; love urges us to think of others and not just our own selfish needs.)
- how we demonstrate faith (moving forward in God, not settling in a land of comfort, but always pressing on – Phil 3:12)
- how we live obediently in purity (learning to crucify the old nature and live without addictions, self-indulgence and sloppiness, paying attention to what we think, eat and do, refusing to let appetites rule us, living not as animals – who live by instincts – but as people made in the image of God.)
People need role models and God calls us to ‘shine like stars in the universe, as you hold out the word of life.’ (Phil 2:15-16) The Message version says ‘provide people with a glimpse of good living and of the living God. Carry the light-giving Message into the night.’ That is our calling and destiny: to be those light-emitting disciples whose lives are far more worthy of emulation than celebrities whose values are only temporal and selfish. When people look at us, they need to see love, light, joy, forgiveness, good temper, humour, integrity, consistency, perseverance and faith. God’s Spirit within us grows His fruit and shines forth.
Hope and Glory
The last night of the Proms (an eight-week summer season of daily orchestral classical music concerts held mainly at the Royal Albert Hall in London) traditionally ends with Edward Elgar’s ‘Pomp and Circumstance March No. 1’, with ‘Land of Hope and Glory’ being sung by the large audience, followed by Thomas Arne’s ‘Rule Britannia’, the hymn ‘Jerusalem‘ (which Flanders and Swann once ironically called England’s unofficial national anthem!) and the national anthem. It is often thought to be a celebration of English greatness.
To be honest, I am uncomfortable with the nationalistic fervour such songs evoke (and definitely don’t believe Jesus’ feet trod on England’s ‘green and pleasant land.’) We live in a multi-cultural society and are witnessing a great shaking of all nations at present which can cause us to become apprehensive and even fearful. Yet at the same time, God’s Word reassures us that He is still in control, reigning and ruling in majesty, even though nations may plot against him (see Psalm 2). I prefer Tim Hughes’ ‘Hope and Glory‘:
‘Hear our cry, Oh King of heaven,
Jesus, hope to every heart.
We are lost without Your glory. We are lost without you, God.
Flames of love that purify.
Send the power and Your salvation;
Let us see Your kingdom come. Only You can move the mountains.
Only You can heal our land.
Christ alone our hope and glory,
Christ alone: in You we stand.
Turn Your eyes and show us mercy,
How we need Your Father’s love.
Lead us home and out of darkness
With Your gospel burning bright.
Only You can move the mountains.
Only You can heal our land
Christ alone our hope and glory
Christ alone: in You we stand.
We believe our God is mighty.
We believe our God is here.
We believe our King is coming.
Christ alone: in You we stand
Praise the Lord: our God is mighty.
Praise the Lord: our God is here.
Praise the Lord: our King is coming.
Christ alone: in You we stand.’ (‘Hope And Glory’, Tim Hughes)
More July birthdays
We had two more birthdays to celebrate tonight, one retrospectively and one in advance:
Paid On The Nail
Graham Kendrick captures the value of an individual in this song:
‘Is a rich man worth more than a poor man?
A stranger worth less than a friend?
Is a baby worth more than an old man?
Your beginning worth more than your end?
Is a president worth more than his assassin?
Does your value decrease with your crime?
Like when Christ took the place of Barabbas
Would you say he was wasting his time?
Well, how much do you think you are worth, boy?
Will anyone stand up and say?
Would you say that a man is worth nothing
Until someone is willing to pay?
I suppose that you think that you matter
Well, how much do you matter to whom?
It’s much easier at night when with friends and bright lights
Than much later alone in your room
Do you think they’ll miss one in a billion
When you finish this old human race?
Does it really make much of a difference
When your friends have forgotten your face?
If you heard that your life had been valued
That a price had been paid on the nail
Would you ask what was traded,
How much and who paid it
Who was He and what was His name?
If you heard that His name was called Jesus
Would you say that the price was too dear?
Held to the cross not by nails but by love
It was you broke His heart, not the spear!
Would you say you are worth what it cost Him?
You say ‘no’, but the price stays the same.
If it don’t make you cry, laugh it off, pass Him by,
But just remember the day when you throw it away
That He paid what He thought you were worth.’ (‘How Much Do You Think You Are Worth?’, Graham Kendrick)
Celebrity Culture
Garry’s ‘Talking Point’ sermon tonight looked at the subject of celebrity culture. Celebrities seem to enjoy incredible importance and influence in the Western world, be they film stars, sportspeople, talent show winners or Internet celebrities.
Their fame,wealth and success are things ordinary people aspire to; indeed, many young people today cite ‘being famous’ as their life goal, even if they have no idea what they want to do to achieve fame! Often, this failure to achieve celebrity status breeds resentment and a sense of failure, but social media can create the illusion of fame even for the most ordinary of people. Some will go to extraordinarily dubious lengths to achieve fame (e.g. the Ukrainian mobster, Leonid “Tarzan” Fainberg, whose ‘claim to fame’ was as a sex trafficker who said, “You can buy a woman for $10,000 and make your money back in a week if she is pretty and young. Then everything else is profit.”)
What is also significant today is the increasingly varied roles that celebrities play in contemporary culture and the cultural authority that they are granted in those roles: we see celebrities serving as heroes, cultural commentators, charity spokespeople, role models and political candidates, to name just a few. It is truly frightening when politics, education, and our most intimate relationships become entertainment left to the dictates of a few celebrities.
Celebrity culture is founded on the Western lie that people have no intrinsic value set by God. If God is thrown out of the equation, then the value or worth of individuals becomes a commodity to be traded and fame and wealth become the values we live by. Katie Price once said, “No one can live without money. Money and religion are the big things, and that’s it, and I stay away from religion. We love to earn money, who doesn’t? It gets you things and it’s security.” Stephen Bayley and Roger Mavity’s book ‘Life’s A Pitch’ argued that the most important thing anyone could sell is themselves, which celebrities do with startling success.
Celebrity culture cannot give people the security and worth they all desire, however: only God can do this. Gen 1:26 reminds us people are made in God’s image and mean so much to Him that He sent His only Son to die for them (John 3:16, Gal 2:19-20). Christ gave Himself as a ransom for people (1 Tim 2:5-6). Our worth is priceless; we are worth far more than the market price for a bag of heroin. Dr. Eric R. Pianka may claim people ‘are no better than bacteria’ and can therefore be destroyed on a whim (see here), but the truth is that God places great value on people and we have a hope that cannot be measured by culture. No matter what others say we are worth, God’s value of us gives us dignity, hope and security. We don’t need celebrity endorsements; we have God’s approval, love and grace.
Light-emitting disciples
John spoke thi morning from John 12:23-36, a sermon he entitled ‘Lifted by Love, Attracted by Grace.’ Sin has broken the relationship man had originally with God and causes us to fear that relationship with God for which we were created, but through Jesus, we are drawn back into relationship with God. Sin and shame cause us to look down, unable to see God’s brilliance and glory, but God wants us to look up. He lifts us from our facedown position of shame to our knees in prayer and longs to lift us onto our feet so that we can become the people He made us to be.
Jesus told His disciples they are the light of the world (Matt 5:14) who are called to shine like stars in the universe. (Phil 2:12-16) The reason God has put us on our feet is so that we can emit and radiate God’s light, being effective, honest and constant lights in a dark world. Heb 4:14-16 tells us that we can only maintain this glow as we dwell in God’s presence. We are not called simply to be passive reflectors of God’s light, but to be light-emitting disciples.
A reflector on a bike is passive, simply reflecting any light that shines upon it:
LEDs (light-emitting diodes) are light sources which emit bright light when activated:
Jesus calls us not only to reflect His light, but to allow His light to shine through us so that we can each shine in such a way that people are drawn to Him and glorify God through our lives. We are called to work out our salvation, evaluating and discerning God’s individual plan for our lives so that we can reflect Him in all the different circumstances and experiences of life.